Congratulations on reaching this momentous milestone in your journey together! Composing your own wedding vows is a beautiful and deeply personal way to express your love and commitment to each other. Here, we provide guidance and inspiration to help you craft vows that are uniquely yours.

Why Write Your Own Vows?

Writing your own vows adds a personal touch to your ceremony, making it even more meaningful and memorable. It allows you to speak from the heart, sharing your feelings, promises, and aspirations with your partner and loved ones.

Getting Started

Begin by reflecting on your relationship, your partner, and your shared experiences. What do you love most about your partner? What promises do you want to make to them? Consider incorporating meaningful anecdotes, inside jokes, or quotes that hold significance for you both.

Structure and Content

While there are no strict rules, most vows include a declaration of love, promises for the future, and a statement of commitment. You can also include personal anecdotes, promises specific to your relationship, or even humorous elements to lighten the mood.

Tips for Writing

• Be sincere and authentic: Your vows should reflect your true feelings and intentions.
• Keep it concise: Aim for a length that feels comfortable for you to say aloud.
• Practice out loud: This will help you gauge the flow and timing of your vows.
• Seek inspiration: Read examples of vows online or in books to get ideas, but make sure your vows are unique to your relationship.

Sample Vows

Here are a few examples to inspire you:

• “I promise to support you, cherish you, and stand by your side through all of life’s adventures. I vow to be your partner in all things, loving you fiercely and unconditionally.”
• “I promise to be your faithful partner, to honor and respect you, and to cherish our love for all eternity. With you, I am home.”
• “I vow to laugh with you in times of joy, and to comfort you in times of sorrow. I promise to be your partner in all things, now and forevermore.

Rev. Lorelei’s Vows

Edward, today I take you to be my beloved Husband/ Wife/ Spouse

I will love you with all my heart

I will place you above all others

I will honor you in my words and actions

And I will forgive you and ask forgiveness

I will stand by your side during good times and bad

In sickness and in health

Through joy and sorrow

I promise to protect you

Protect our Family

And be faithful to both

And these are my gifts to you.  

In Conclusion

Writing your vows is a meaningful way to personalize your wedding ceremony and express your love and commitment to your partner. Take your time, speak from the heart, and enjoy the process of creating vows that are as unique as your love story. Remember that your wedding vows are the very first gift you give each other so make it a spectacular one!